Funny Advice for Newlyweds, desserts at an engagement party

Funny Advice for Newlyweds

It’s full blown wedding season, we are 100% in it right now. Which means Engagement Parties, Bachelorettes, and Bridal Showers every single weekend. And all those events mean, fun corny games and activities where you need to know everything about the bride to be, know how to count how many kisses are in a jar, and most importantly know the best advice to give to newlyweds.

If you’re anything like me, the chronically single friend who shouldn’t be giving relationship advice to anyone, then you want to give the newlyweds some funny advice. You know they are reading all the “never go to sleep angry” responses and the “always make time for date nights,” so why not shake it up with something that will make your friends laugh?

Funny Advice for Newlyweds

Never leave the toilet seat up

Always have at least 5 bottles of wine at the house

Prank each other often, start a prank war

The wife is always right

Get a king size bed, you won’t want to be near each other after a while

Don’t try to be a mindreader, or do and see if you’re right

Always be your weird selves

Never check each other’s phones, unless you want to start a fight which is fun sometimes

Don’t forget to put your ring on every day

A glass of wine solves all problems

Never run out of toilet paper

Always blame your partner even if you messed up

Never clean up after your partner, make them learn how to be repsonsible

Laugh at each others jokes even when they aren’t funny

Lie occasionally and see if your partner notices, keep them on their toes

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My Friday Five, My Favorite Things From the Week - Girl dancing in a grass field during the sunset

Friday Five | My Favorite Things From the Week

Friday Five is Back!!!!

I really do love doing these weekly recaps and sharing all my favorites with you. It’s really been great to be back int he swing of things with blogging, especially more posts like this where you can all really get to know me and what I’m currently doing! I think we’re almost on a two week streak of daily posting – I’m pretty impressed with myself honestly.

This week has been a crazy one, between work being very busy, going on 3 weekends straight of traveling, and trying to enjoy every last minute of summer possible, it’s been tough to just relax. Regardless, I really can’t complain. Even though I’ve been incredibly busy, I am so grateful for even having the opportunity to do all the things I do every single day.

Top Five

Blacksmith’s Bread



This is my spot. Nothing makes my morning complete like the walk to Blacksmiths to get my coffee. They have saved me quite a few mornings this week when I just couldn’t get our of my own way and needed coffee to live. Not to mention their food menu is absolutely insane and the bakery items are all made fresh daily. If you go and don’t try the Morning Bun, you’re doing it wrong. Shoutout to the team there who decided to stay open til 4pm and not 2pm in the summer! Afternoon coffees just got so much better.

AirPod Pros

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I feel like I mention these in all my Friday Fives, but I really do rely on these daily and they make my week so incredibly enjoyable. If I need to zone out and focus at work, AirPods. Going on my daily bike ride, AirPods. Lions Gate Meditation on 8/8, yup, AirPods. This week has been very hectic, from roadtrip planning to cramming my all my tasks into this work-week, having my AirPods and being able to zone out really improved my productivity level and thats why their a fav for this week!

Tommy Bahamas Beach Chair

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Between the Beach Volleyball Tourney I played in on the weekend and the Beach Volleyball League on Wednesdays, my Tommy Bahamas chair was the real MVP. It’s super lightweight and the backpack straps make it so easy to carry while I ride my bike to the beach. If I didn’t have this chair, my butt would be in the sand and I would be so uncomfortable in between volleyball games.

TJ Maxx


TJ Maxx was a lifesaver this week. For the life of me I could not find a dress for the party in Pittsburgh this weekend. Not even exaggerating, I spend countless hours looking thorough maybe 15 stores websites, only to come up empty handed each time. I went to TJ Maxx on a whim to get pillow cases and low and behold I found the most perfect summer dress for the party. Not to mention it was only $16. So thank you for being so amazing TJ Maxx.

My Job

This week, more so than others, I was reminded about how amazing the company that I work for is. They really value work culture and our mission is a pretty remarkable one that is going to change how people access data and use it to the benefit. Having a fully flexible workplace means that I can work from where I want, when I want. A perk that has made all these busy weekends and plans that much more enjoyable. I’m also lucky to do working on a team doing a job that I love, where I’m encouraged to grow and take on new projects. I really love what I do and am so thankful for it!

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A Guide to Roadtrip Planning, Beautiful View During a Roadtrip out the back on a car looking at mountains and a river

A Guide to Roadtrip Planning

Early tomorrow morning, my boyfriend and I and heading out on a 8 hour roadtrip to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I was team ‘let’s just book flights,’ while he insisted on driving there. We all know that I love driving, but the trip to Pittsburgh is absolutely daunting and honestly plain old boring.

While roadtripping is my thing, I’m still not really feeling this one but we’re doing it and we’re gonna be stuck in my car for 8 hours. I’ve been planning and scheduling this trip for almost a week now and wanted to share some tips on making sure your roadtrip is a smooth as humanly possible.

A Guide to Roadtrip Planning

Plan an Exact Departure Time

Things always get hectic the day of leading up to a roadtrip. Chances are you’re leaving super early or super late, to avoid traffic, and things always seem to come up last minute. Setting a goal of leaving at an exact time can help reduce the super last minute tasks and keep your schedule on time.

Make Sure Your Car is in Top Condition

Get a service check, get a fresh oil change, rotate your tires, make sure your car or vehicle is good to go. The last thing you need is for something to break or for your car to stop working because you did not take care of routine maintenance.

Make a Packing List

I’m talking about an extensive packing list – clothing, accessories, toiletries, snacks, everything. Write everything down! The most annoying thing after roadtripping somewhere, is getting out of the car and realizing your forget something

Prep the Day Before

Pack your bags, load up the car, give yourself a mental pep talk the day before you leave! You want to make the start of the trip as easy as possible. No one wants to be running around like crazy the hour before a trip wondering if everything is good to go.

Pack Car Bags and Trunk Bags

When packing organize your belongings by when you are going to be using them, during the roadtrip or once you get there. For me, I’ll be working remote this roadtrip so you better believe my laptop and my charger are in my car bag, along with some snacks and plenty of water bottles! I also keep all my chargers and headphones in my car bag, along with lysol wipes and hand sanitizer!

Plan Bathroom Breaks & Gas Station Stops

There’s great apps like roadtrippers and GasBuddy that make this easy, but having a good understanding of where you need to stop for gas and breaks limits the stress of potentially running out of gas or stopping in a less than ideal area.

Bring a Spare Tire

Accidents happen, so do pot holes and nails in the road. If you experience a blow out its better to be prepared. Especially if you are in a remote area, tire shops may be few and far between. Having a donut or a full size spare can ensure you can get your car to a safe location to ultimately get it repaired.

Make Playlists

Part of the fun of roadtripping is just hanging with yourself or your friends and just hanging out. Nothing is better than an epic roadtrip playlist – throwbacks to billboard top 50 hits, whatever you are feeling make a playlist, put it on shuffle, and forget about it. All you have to do is sing along when your favorites play.

Pack Snacks & Water

It’s important to remember to bring food and water! Even with a solid plan for stops, there’s always a chance that traffic or construction will slow your trip down. Being prepared to be stuck in the car for longer periods of time than anticipated is important.


Triple A is a necessity for all roadtrippers. Before you go off on your trip make sure you have a AAA Membership. There are different tiers, so you can pick the one thats most affordable for you. Obviously it takes time to the mechanics to reach you if you do need help, but knowing that they are a phone call away takes away a lot of stress and anxiety.

Share Your Phone Location With Friends and Family

It’s not smart to text and drive, but it is important to keep those closest to you updated on your location. Sharing your location via Find My Friends or another mobile application, gives those are home peace of mind. This is especially important for solo-travelers – You should always have your location shared with at least 3 people. Should anything happen they are able to pass on your whereabouts, but also they can follow along on the incredible journey that you are embarking on!

Get Excited!

Roadtrips are awesome. Even if I’m not reallllyyy looking forward to the one tomorrow morning, I know it will be a great time. You get to see so much from a perspective that you wouldn’t get from flying. You can stop at smaller towns and live like locals, things you wouldn’t get to do in those tourist hotspots. So, get excited for your trip! It’s going to be a great one.

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Practice Self Love

5 Reasons To Practice Self-Love

You are your best friend

There’s one person who will always be in your corner no matter what, that’s yourself. Practicing self-love does not take hours, its a couple minutes or even seconds out of your day to give back to yourself. At the end of the day you’re the only one who truly has your own back. Don’t ever forget that!

You are capable of doing whatever you set your mind to

It’s incredible how the pieces just fall together when you look inward. Practicing self-love can help you accomplish all the goals you have, big or small. You truly are capable of doing whatever you set your mind too, and when you fully believe that you can, good things start to happen. Don’t let any negative talk cloud your vision.

You deserve the amount of love that you give to others

Don’t neglect to fill your own cup. You are worthy of all the love that you give others. Don’t settle for anything less than that!

The world deserves the best you

In this crazy world we live in, the only thing we can control is ourselves. Being our personal best self only brings positive vibes to the people around us. When you become your best self you’re capable of amazing things, you deserve that and so does the world!

You attract the energy you give off

If you think you’re going to trip and fall, chances are you’re going to trip and fall. If you’re sending out negative energy, more negativity is bound to come your way. If you’re sending out hopeful positive messages and energies, you’ll receive that back. Practicing self love is a great way to attract good things to your life.

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Birthday Gift GUide

Birthday Gift Guide | Best Last Minute Birthday Gifts

We’ve all been there, life gets busy and the next thing you know you have 48 hours til a birthday party or event. Our trusty friend Amazon continues, and seems to always, to come in clutch for all things last minute, especially if you have Amazon Prime. Next day, or even same day shipping in some cities, makes finding last minute birthday gifts a breeze.

If you’re looking for some great last minute birthday gift ideas, then you are in the right spot! Don’t worry, I linked a ton of gift options here to make your life even easier. 🙂 Pair any of these gifts together or with a gift card from your friends favorite store and you’re ready to go!

Skincare Birthday Gifts

Rose Quartz Face Roller

Green Jade Face Roller

Facial Masks

Charcoal Mask

Gold Mask

Lip Masks

Cute Make-Up Bag

Face Gel Moisturizer

Skin Serum

Make Up Remover Wash Cloths

Face Wipes

Travel Birthday Gifts


Polaroid Camera

Weekender Bag

Travel Make Up Bag

Passport Cover

Luggage Tags

Comfy Sweat Pants


Beach Bucket Hat

Classic Baseball Hat

AirPod Pros

Cozy Birthday Gifts


Barefoot Dreams Blanket






Fuzzy Socks

Semi-Personalized Birthday Gifts

Initial Coffee Mug

Journal w/ Name

Fun Customized Coozie

Tumbler with Initial

Initial Bracelet

Initial Ring

Initial Necklace

Jewelry Birthday Gifts

Gold Bangles

Gold Hoops

Beaded Bracelets

Best Friend Necklaces

Necklace Stacks

Kate Space Studs

Kate Spade Bangle

Kendra Scott Necklace

Home Accessory Birthday Gifts

Macrame Wall Hanging

Fun Candles

Neon Sign

Dried Lavender Pouches

Home Sweet Home Sign

Cute Farmhouse Sign

Balloon Dog Sculpture

Hanging Planter Vase

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Moon Stages

9 Best Spiritual Instagram Accounts to Follow for Inspiration

Over the past 3 years, I have been on my own personal spiritual journey. It has been incredibly enlightening and allowed me to understand so much more about who I am, what I want to be, and why I am the way I am. This used to be something that I rarely spoke about because I feared that others would judge me, but that’s not the case anymore.

Over time I realized how energy and vibrations can shift your life and create paths that you never thought possible. From career to relationships, the universe is on your side! As I began wanting to learn more about the universe and astrology, I came across some insightful Instagram Accounts that helped me understand more about myself but also the world around me.

If you are beginning your spiritual journey or looking for more outlets for information to continue on your pre-existing journey, make sure to follow these accounts!










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Designer Fashion on Amazon

Luxury Designers on Amazon | Summer / Fall 2022

I think by now we all know how much I use Amazon. Yes, I support local businesses frequently, but the ease of use and my last minute tendencies to need things, mixed with my insanely busy schedule means Amazon (specifically Prime) makes my like 1000x easier.

Being the designer snob that I am, I was shocked to find out that Amazon has an extensive luxury designer offering! I spent way too much time getting lost in the spiral of Amazon Fashion but could not get over how many amazing pieces were listed. Granted the closest mall is about 45 minutes from me, being able to order adorable dresses and outfits for date nights, weddings, or any event just became so much more convenient.

Check out some of my favorite designer pieces that are on Amazon right now!

Luxury Fashion on Amazon

Oscar De La Renta on Amazon

Baguette Crystal Hoop Earrings

Multi Color Floral Poplin Jumpsuit

V-Neck Tank Dress

Leather Mini TRO Bag

Alexandre Birman on Amazon

Vicky 90 Leather

Soft Clarita Flat


Missoni on Amazon

Long Sleeve Turtle Neck Dress

Short Sleeve Crew Neck

Sleeveless Dress

Elie Saab on Amazon

Cady Bralette

Printed Popeline Long Skirt

Crepe Pants

Gabardin Pants

Jennifer Meyer on Amazon

18k Gold Inlay Short Bar Bracelet

18k Gold Thin Ruby Ring

18k Gold Bar Stud Earrings

18k Gold Wishbone Bracelet

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Breakfast Foods at Long Island Restaurants

Best Breakfast Spots on Long Island

Looking for the best breakfast on Long Island? Look no further. I’ve put together a list of some the best breakfast places that Suffolk County has to offer. If you are looking for some Long Island brunch spots, this list can double as that too!

These are not listed in any order, so you should absolutely try them all. I stuck to Breakfast spots in Suffolk County for now, maybe I’ll make one for Nassau County too?

If you’re looking for Long Island Coffeeshops, don’t forget to check out my blog listing some of the best!

Maureen’s Kitchen

108 Terry Road, Smithtown, New York
Monday – Friday : 7am – 2pm
Saturday – Sunday : 7am – 1:45pm


101 E. Main Street, Smithotwn, New York

Sunday – Saturday : 7am – 3pm

Sweet Mama’s

Northport : 9 Alsace Place, Northport, New York

Sunday – Saturday : 8am – 8pm

Stony Brook : 121 Main Street, Stony Brook, New York

Sunday – Saturday : 9am – 8pm


Kings Park : 2 Pulaski Rd, Kings Park, New York

Monday : 8am – 3pm
Tuesday – Thursday : 8am – 8pm
Friday – Saturday : 8am – 9pm
Sunday : 8am – 7pm

Hauppauge : 551 Hauppauge Rd, Hauppauge, New York

Monday – Tuesday : 8am – 3pm
Wednesday – Thursday : 8am – 8:30pm
Friday – Saturday : 8am – 9pm
Sunday : 8am – 7pm


286 Main St, Huntington, New York

Monday – Friday : 8am – 3pm
Saturday – Sunday : 7am – 4pm

The Shed

Huntington : 54 New Street, Huntington, New York

Monday – Thursday : 11am – 10pm
Friday : 11am – 11pm
Saturday : 9am – 11pm
Sunday : 9am – 9pm

West Sayville : 21 Main Street, West Sayville, New York

Monday – Thursday : 11am – 10pm
Friday : 11am – 11pm
Saturday : 9am – 11pm
Sunday : 9am – 9pm


West Islip : 306 Union Blvd, West Islip, New York

Monday – Saturday : 7:30 am – 3:30pm
Sunday : 7:30am – 3:00pm

Amityville : 55 Merrick Road, Amityville, New York

Monday – Saturday : 7:30 am – 3:30pm
Sunday : 7:30am – 3:00pm

Centereach : 1759 Middle Country Rd, Centereach, New York

Monday – Saturday : 7:30 am – 3:30pm
Sunday : 7:30am – 3:00pm

East Northport : 361 Larkfield Road, East Northport, New York

Monday – Saturday : 7:30 am – 3:30pm
Sunday : 7:30am – 3:00pm

Toast Coffeehouse

Port Jefferson : 242 East Main Street, Port Jefferson, New York

Monday – Friday : 8am – 3pm
Saturday – Sunday : 7:30am – 3:30pm

Patchouge : 46 East Main Street, Patchouge, New York

Monday – Friday : 8am – 3pm
Saturday – Sunday : 7:30am – 3:30pm

Bay Shore : 9 South Avenue, Bay Shore, New York

Monday – Friday : 8am – 3pm
Saturday – Sunday : 7:30am – 3:30pm

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Life Lessons I Learned In My Twenties

It’s starting to hit me that I am really in my 30s. But if we’re being honest, not much has changed from my 20’s. Butttt my 20’s were really a wild decade, from college to now it is hard to believe that so much time has gone by.

Looking back at my 20’s, it really was a decade of self growth and discovering my own self worth. I’ve always struggled trusting myself and dealt with more confidence issues than you can imagine. In the past decade, I’ve played Division 1 and 2 lacrosse, coached collegiate lacrosse, started my sales and marketing career, moved to Boston and lived their for over 5 years, bought 3 cars, made a bagillion and 1 mistakes, became a Nationally Qualified NPC Bikini Competitor, coached youth lacrosse, most recently became a varsity lacrosse coach, all while trying to keep my anxiety at bay and getting through every day!

Even though I feel like I am the same person from 10 years ago, I really have grown so much. I have learned a lot, and I’m looking forward to learning even more in my 30s. But no matter where life takes me, I will be taking these life lessons from my twenties with me wherever I go!

Trust Your Gut

If you have a feeling that something is either really right or really wrong, run with it.  Your instinct is always correct.

Put Yourself First

At the end of the day you have yourself to rely on, that’s it.  You’re stuck with you forever. Take care of yourself.  If you don’t like the situation that you are in, change it.  Your job isn’t cutting it, get a new one.  Someone is adding stress to your life, move on.  It really is ok to be selfish, on occasion, and make sure you are doing what’s right for you.

Trust Your Gut Even More

Seriously – don’t doubt yourself.  Whether it is a person, place, or thing, you’ll know if it’s meant for you or if it isn’t. Don’t ignore those butterflies in your stomach or aches in your heart, they are there for a reason.  Trust them.

Lean On Your Friends

If you’re lucky enough to have a group of friends that love you, lean on them. You don’t need to go through your issues and life alone. A true friend will let you vent, will help you solve your problems, and will not judge you at all. Don’t be afraid of opening up to your best friends, they are your best friends for a reason and will be there be your side through it all.

Don’t Spend Money On Stupid Things

Yes, money comes and money goes but do not throw your money away.  If you need something, buy it, but don’t spend all your money on one trip or something you will use once just to say you have it – live within your means.  I’ve seen way to many friends bury themselves in unnecessary debt for no other reason than crazy spending habits.   

Invest Early and Often

Want to know what’s amazing? Compound Interest. Let your money work for you. Talk to a financial advisor as soon as possible to get yourself on the right track. Does your company offer a 401k match? Do it. Are you young enough to really benefit from a ROTH 401k? Do it. The later you start, the less growth potential but at the end of the day it’s NEVER to late to start. Invest what you can and forget about it. Yes taking money out of your paycheck stings, but years down the road you’ll revisit the account and be oh so pleasantly surprised with the bag you’ve managed to secure.

Looking for a quick, easy, and effective way to start investing money? Check out Acorns.  One of my favorite investment apps. You’ll get $5 in free stock when you sign up.

It’s Okay If Your Friend Circle Gets Smaller

Quality over Quantity. Your life will change, so will your friends and family. People will move away from you, and people will move near you. Your group will change, grow, and shrink. If your circle gets smaller, it’s okay. People have a time and place in your life, trust the universe and everything happening for a reason.

People Will Let Your Down

Not everything will be sunshine and rainbows, and that’s not a problem. People will let you down and it will feel like the end of the world. You might go through all the feels, but you will come out on top at the end of the day. You will learn lessons and you will grow. You will learn who is worth your time and who is not. Someone very close to me once said, energy is replenish-able so use it frivolously, time is not re-useable so use it wisely. Value your time and the people you let in your life.

Hang Onto What Makes Your Happy

Everything you do should be something that brings you happiness or takes you on a road to happiness. Don’t give something up that makes you happy. Don’t spend your time trying to chase something new in hopes of happiness if you already are living your best life.

It’s Okay To Let Go Of People You Once Loved

Many people will come and go from your life, some are harder to let go of than others. Some might take longer to let go of than others, but when someone no longer serves a purpose in your life its best to let them go and move forward. There’s always better things ahead.

If Someone Opens The Door to Leave, Let Them

For any reason, if someone of some thing decides to leave your life, let them. Do not force anyone or any situation you are in to stay if it chooses to leave you. The right person will stay. The right job will work out. The right friends will stay. You owe it to yourself to surround yourself with people who want to be with you. You owe it to yourself to be in a situation that works for you! If someone wants to leave, let them.

It’s Easy To Make Money

Don’t be scared of money. Making money is easy. There are a million and one ways to make a living, most of which you probably haven’t thought of yet and guess what, they aren’t illegal. Don’t be scared to try and start something of your own or a side hustle!

Don’t Compare Your Life to Someone Else’s Life

We are all living our lives on different paths. Your 20’s is a wild time where people are getting married, having babies, divorcing, getting jobs, starting companies, losing jobs, losing money, making insane amounts of money.. There’s so much change happening because everyone is figuring out their own lives. Don’t look at someone else and wish you have what they have. If you focus on other people’s lives more than your own, you’ll miss out on the amazing things that you are doing and the life that you are building for yourself.

Never Stop Loving Yourself

It will get rocky at times, but never forget how incredible of a person you are. Don’t let a person make you think you aren’t worthy. Don’t let a social media app make you think you aren’t beautiful. Don’t let one failure define you. You’ve made it this far and there’s so much ahead of you waiting!

If you’re currently in your twenties, enjoy it. I sure did.

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Insight Timer Meditations for Relaxation

My Favorite Meditations on Insight Timer

I am about two years into my meditation journey, and I really can’t imagine my life without it. There’s something incredibly soothing when you are able to take a few minutes to yourself and enjoy the calmness. In a world full of hustle and bustle and craziness, releasing stagnant energy and basking in the calmness around you really does wonders.

I’ve learned a lot about myself through my meditation practice. Allowing yourself to connect to the energy around you and disconnect from what no longer serves you allows you to move forward on whatever path you choose. Whether you are looking to connect to yourself on a deeper level or are on an intense spiritually journey, meditating is an incredible practice!

If you are new to meditating, I am excited for you! I hope that these inspiring you to settle your mind and search within. If you are a seasoned veteran, I hope these can provide some new guided meditations to keep in your back pocket.

First things first, I am not affiliated with Insight Timer in any capacity. I found Insight Timer when I first began meditating regularly and have used it since then for daily practice. If you are also on the app (or just downloaded it) let’s be friend! @teenafey (no shocker there).

These meditations are my tried and true favorites. Bookmark this page and come back to it time and time again to try out some new meditations on Insight Timer. Some are guided and others are music that plays a specific frequency. So settle down on your meditation pillow or yoga mat, sync up with your breathing and let your meditation practice begin!

Best Meditations on Insight Timer

Morning Ritual Jason McGrice

Cord Cutting Practice Avalon Starlight

Toxic Energy Cleanse Melody Litton

Healing Darkness For Sleep Jennifer Piercy

Open to Your Soulmate Jason McGrice

Cut Energetic Cords Renee Wilkinson

Love Energy Healing Session: Reiki For Sleep Ellen Mouton

Cleansing Cord Cutting Meditation & Visualization Jocelyn Valencia

Melting Stress, Fear & Anxiety Jason McGrice

Best Music on Insight Timer

417Hz Clears Away All Negative Energy Shrine of Enlightenment

Sacral Chakra Tibetan Singing Bowls Sonic Yogi

432Hz Heart Chakra Healing While You Sleep Healing Dawn

555Hz Positive Change, Deep Healing & Manifestation Simon Rose

Third Eye Chakra Singing Bowls Sonic Yogi

Deep Sleep Music – 1.5Hz Binaural Beats For Sleep Aaron Darrell

I hope you enjoy these Insight Timer meditations as much as I do!

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